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Romance scams

An online relationship moves fast, then the other person needs money for an emergency.

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How it works

Romance scammers build emotional connection over weeks or months, often on dating apps or social media. They always have a reason they can't meet or video call, and eventually ask for money for travel, medical bills, customs fees or an investment.

Warning signs

  • Strong feelings expressed very quickly
  • Always a reason they can't meet in person or turn on their camera
  • Requests for money, gift cards or help with 'an investment'
  • Asking you to keep the relationship secret

Common tactics

  • Stolen photos from real people's profiles
  • Claiming to work abroad, on an oil rig, in the military or as a doctor
  • Moving you off the dating app quickly

What to do

  1. Never send money to someone you have not met in person
  2. Reverse image search their photos
  3. Talk to someone you trust about the relationship
  4. Remember it is not your fault. These scams are designed to exploit kindness

Reporting

Report the message or account to the platform it came through, then report to your country's official fraud reporting service. If money or banking details are involved, contact your bank or payment provider first.

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